Recently I had yet another discussion with an author whose similar viewpoints to mine regarding realism in Christian Fiction romance beg the question: "Why does it cause such an uproar from some readers who feel they alone hold the judge's gavel concerning what is 'acceptable' for Christian literature?"
I know this topic has been a frequent – yes, even repetitive – subject on this blog. It's because I find it unbelievably annoying that any Christian reader can criticize an author for depicting romance in a way said reader might not have experienced or even wanted to. The reason for my irritation is because there are literally unlimited sources of novels with precisely the kind of romance those readers prefer. Unlimited! It's not like they're being forced to read some kind of smut slid under the label of Christian romance.
Romance is not only emotional, it is physical, and spiritual. Romance wasn't created by mankind just as sex wasn't. God gave the human race the multiple senses, the ability to learn to love romantically and, yes, sexually. He created lovemaking. Sometimes I think that comes as a shock to some Christians.
The point being: If you happened to stumble upon a novel that portrays romance in a way you don't prefer to read, find another novel. It's simple really. And remember, it's your opinion if you think the romance is too racy (and I reiterate here: I'm not talking about graphics), so withhold your judgmental one-star reviews, carry on your disgusted conversations with those readers who feel as you do, and leave the true judgment to the One who knows the author's heart.
Father, help me to always honor you with my writing and tell the stories the way you want them told. Apart from you, I can do nothing. In the Name of Jesus, Amen.

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