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              Romance

As you might have noticed, I've been discussing romance a lot lately. I've been considering why and/or how authors choose their niches/genres. I can honestly say my area of writing chose me.

I knew as soon as I committed to writing my first novel what the focus would be in terms of communicating a certain objective. Some might suggest it is the "message" or the less complimentary term the "agenda". Either way or other ways my novels always contrast the worldview of love, romance, sex to God's view of the same. In my books you will see the world portrayed as it is. Christians will be seen in all their struggles, their hypocrisies if the story leans that way, and/or their failings, successes, commitments, desires, etc. 

So why "romance"? Romance means so many different things to people. I did a blog post several years ago contrasting the way men see/understand romance to the way women often do. Of course not all men and all women interpret it in conflicting extremes, but I would venture to say even at the most basic and compatible levels, a difference exists between them.

You've often heard me separate my novels from being addressed as "romance novels" instead calling them "love stories". Many readers wouldn't make that distinction. I only make it because in the "biz" a romance novel follows a formula which basically consists of girl meets boy, girl and boy fall for each other, some stupid communication or conflict interrupts, interferes, or instigates more conflict and there is great trouble, sadness, anger, and total misunderstanding or . . . you get my drift. 

It's a well known fact that romance novels outsell most other fiction of course among women. So why is that? Of all the women I know, I know two who specifically prefer other genres and one of them is author Brenda S. Anderson who writes Women's Fiction. The other gal is a longtime friend. 

And why do I primarily read espionage, mystery, suspense, thrillers? But I write love stories heavy on the romance. 

These are my musings this Monday in July. Would love to hear your thoughts and opinions . . . 

 

Father, I thank you for each story. I believe true romance comes from you. The rest that the world offers is just chaff or worse. May I always honor you with my writing. Apart from you, I can do nothing. In the Name of Jesus, Amen.   

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5 responses to “About that . . . romance”

  1. Brenda S. Anderson Avatar

    It’s interesting what God lays on our hearts to write, isn’t it? While I write women’s fiction (with a heavy dose of male characters!), I’m super picky about reading books in the genre. There area few writers who I’ll read whatever they put out, but not many. I also enjoy reading thrillers & suspense, but typically by a male author. Female authors tend to put too much eye-rolling romance in their books. 😀

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  2. Nicole Petrino-Salter Avatar

    Guilty as charged! But then I’m not writing thrillers – unless of course romance thrills you. Hahahaha!
    I get it, and, yes, you and I agree on male authors. Since Vince is in heaven, and I do appreciate Kyle Mills, I’m glad to have found Mark Dawson, JB Turner, and I enjoy LT Ryan (with or without Brian Shea).
    And you and I definitely focus on our heroes. Love the men. 😉

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  3. Debra Avatar
    Debra

    I appreciate your making the distinction between romance and love stories. I don’t enjoy the formulaic romances either. I find the men to be too sweet, too attentive, too handsome, too heroic, etc. And while I read for enjoyment, I don’t want dumb. Even when I’ve been under a lot of stress and couldn’t read the heartbreaking novels, I still didn’t want dumb.
    I enjoy so many genres. I’m not even sure what my favorite is, maybe mystery. I think the most important thing for me is that the story be told well.

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  4. Nicole Petrino-Salter Avatar

    You know my work better than anyone, Deb. And you know there’s not a lot of conflict in them, and I hate dumb things like silly miscommunications taken like the earth is shattering without getting real about clarification. Anyway, I do consider them love stories but heavy on the romance factor, not formula. We have to be honest: the origin of romance is in the natural sexual attraction God built into us. It’s always mankind/humanity who ruins His beautiful creation of things He created to be celebrated and enjoyed.

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  5. Brenda S. Anderson Avatar

    Yes to everything you said about romance stories!

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